Monday, November 08, 2010

Weaning: A Bedtime Story

Once upon a time, there was a beautiful baby girl whom her mother called the Infanta. This little girl loved to nurse. From just moments after she was born, she nursed strongly and well, and she and her mother were fortunate to have none of the problems that so many other mothers and babies have. She loved nursing so much that she had no interest in grown-up food until after her first birthday, and her mother's milk nourished her perfectly.

As time went on, the little girl nursed less, although she never stopped wanting her mother's snuggly arms. Soon after the little girl turned two years old, she stopped nursing altogether; her mother was growing another baby, and had stopped making milk. This was sad for them both, and the Infanta continued to ask to nurse. Although her mother didn't let her nurse, she never stopped offering snuggles. The little girl wanted to be close with her mother, and so although she begged to nurse, she grudgingly accepted the snuggles in place of nursing.

One teary night, after the Infanta went to bed, the mother realized that she needed to figure out how to tell her little girl that she wouldn't get to nurse after the baby was born. So, she had a conversation with a dear friend, and decided to write this story. Nursing is special, and every mother and child who are able to even briefly form a unique bond because of it; but it's not something anyone can do forever. That bond never fades, though, and every mother's arms are always open to her children.

8 comments:

caramama said...

LOVE this story!

Barbara said...

Including mine, sweet patootie.

existere said...

How lucky she is to have a mama always willing to let her have a snuggle when she asks. It might be hard for you both to adjust to the end of her nursing...you know I am always here if you need a virtual shoulder to cry on! *hug*

Cucipata said...

Very sweet.

La La said...

Beautiful!!

Batty said...

Yup, it's not about the milk. It's about the love.

Liz said...

I thought that learning to nurse was the hardest thing I ever did- until it was time to stop. I love your story.

Slee said...

Thank you for making me cry.